Brian McCabe

Mar 22, 20202 min

Visiting Podcast - coming soon!

Updated: Feb 4, 2021

Two queer expats’ guide to navigating the city of Zurich.


 
The city of Zurich is one of the most popular destinations in Europe for LGBTIQ+ people to
 
relocate to. Every year thousands of young queer people are drawn to this tiny metropolis,
 
be it for work, study or purely to escape their hometown homophobia. Unbeknownst to
 
many, this is a tradition dating back to a time where homosexuality was illegal in most
 
European countries yet Switzerland and Zurich in particular, has offered safe haven for
 
queers since the 1940s.


 
At first glance, the LGBTIQ+ community seems to offer an easy access for newcomers to
 
connect, either through online apps or queer community spaces. Yet for people with
 
different cultural backgrounds sometimes assimilation into Swiss life has its challenges.
 
Queer people from abroad face these same challenges, like the multiple languages, the
 
sometimes-rigid bureaucracy and even the perceived cold Swiss exterior. These factors often
 
lead to newcomers leaving earlier than expected due to a lack of integration.
 
But fear not queers, the podcast “Visiting?” by Benjamin Hampel and Brian McCabe is here
 
to offer a helping hand. Both Ben and Brian have made the leap from their home countries
 
some years ago and have moved to Zurich as queer “expats”. It wasn’t always easy for both
 
of them to navigate but they both stayed and fell in love with this charming city. Not only
 
that, they both leveled up and became integral fixtures of the city’s queer community.
 
Ben arrived from Germany, at the end of his time as a medicine student. What was initially
 
was planned as a short four-month layover evolved into eleven years and counting. In the
 
meantime, he became the medical co-director of Checkpoint, a queer health center.
 
Brian relocated from Ireland in 2012 with his husband of 12 years. He and his best friend
 
Dominik, started to transform the party scene in Zurich a few years ago. At a time when the
 
LGBTIQ+ community was becoming more and more fragmented, they founded Kweer Ball - a party that is celebrates true diversity and togetherness. They didn’t stop there and
 
continued with queer safe spaces such as, Explicit, Drag Brunch Zurich and TEA – a day
 
dance. All events made Zurich even more colorful and warmer.


 
So why the name "Visiting?”. Well, this is the most frequent question asked on dating apps like Grindr or Scruff when you are new to a city or passing through. And even when you have
 
been here for years you might still get this message pop up in your notifications occasionally.


 
For many, these are the first contacts in a new city, but it can also the question you
 
continually ask yourself as an “expat”. When does one stop being a visitor? At which point
 
can you say that you have truly arrived? Ben and Brian ask this question, tell stories from the
 
point of view of expats, refugees or visitors with the aim to help not only those who are new
 
to Zurich but also those who have always lived here - to understand this city and each other
 
better.

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